This week was quite the week for my MS. I thought I would catch up on some of the changes and my thoughts behind it.
For the last month, my MS has been getting worse. I don’t know whether it’s progressed, I don’t whether this is my “new normal”, I don’t know whether it’s a reaction to something, or whether it’s just have a temper tantrum!
For the last month, the trigger to set of my “motherboard overload” – where my speech and movement goes – has been getting less and less, to the point where there haven’t been any triggers. I’ve had periods, at 48 hours at a time, where Ian has had to do every transfer for me. It’s very annoying. It’s another loss of independence for me and it also means that Ian is tied to me constantly – not good for either of us.
Skip this paragraph if you don’t want the TMI (Too Much Information). One night Ian went into the hot tub for his usual soak. I felt fine and I wanted to go to the loo. So I transferred myself and off I went. And then the overload thing kicked in and I was stuck there…for 30 minutes until Ian got out of the hot tub!!!
Last Sunday I started get some symptoms that could be peripheral neuropathy (which is tingling, “buzzing”, pins and needles, numbness) in my hands and feet, and that could be a side effect of Aubagio. But do they sound familiar? Yup. They’re all MS “feelings” too.
After an email exchange with my neuro, we decided that I should stop taking Aubagio for awhile to see if the drug is causing these problems. The problem with that is I’m pretty much out of DMD (Disease Modifying Drug) options until the next wonder drug is on the market – and for the one that’s most promising for me, that could be a year.
A year in which my relapsing MS could start playing up, never mind the progressing bit. That’s a scary thought.
We will see what happens. A week in and the stomach ache that I’ve had for 10 weeks has gone, but that’s not enough to make me stop taking it. And neither is the huge hair loss I’ve had – it’s only hair!
Fast forward to Friday, and I found out that I had been successful in my CSIL application. CSIL stands for Choices in Support for Independent Living. Here’s a brief description from Spinal Cord Injury BC who have worked with Interior Health to put together a great workbook, to support people through their application and being an employer:
Choice in Supports for Independent Living (CSIL)—pronounced “SEE-sul”—is an alternative way for people with disabilities in BC to receive home support services. The goal of CSIL is to provide more choice and flexibility to people with disabilities who have high-intensity care needs. CSIL employers receive funds to purchase their own home support services; they are responsible for recruiting, hiring, training, scheduling and supervising their own home support workers. Under CSIL, the person with the disability assumes the role of an employer with all of the rights and responsibilities that involves.
It really couldn’t have come at a better time. Like all things that have happened to me with MS, it seems that when I apply for something it seems like it’s something I could use, but when I actually get it, I need it!
Now the process starts to open a bank account, register with the CRA, think about what I want someone to do, write an ad and find someone!
I’m looking forward to it, but it’s a massive adjustment for both Ian and I. Come on – who really wants to admit they have to employ someone to take them to the loo and to dress them?!? But hey, if this is what needs to happen, so be it. I just know the first line of the application already..
MUST LIKE DOGS!